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I dunno .. I've been reading the bag again .. and I wonder how people can say they want a happy relationship if they don't think twice about cheating on their partner. Surely the basis of a relationship is friendship and once you're cheating you've taken a lot of that friendship away because you're living a lie with the other person .. not something you'd do with a friend. I suppose it's all down to why you're in a relationship in the first place .. someone on the bag once posted a brilliant summary of why people go into relationships .. different types of people wanting different things. She said the best thing to do is try and work out if you're anywhere near wanting the same things!!! Too true.

If you cheat you've kind of put up a curtain with the other person because of the enormity of what you're hiding.

I thought the four horsemen of the apocolypse about communication in relationships was excellent .. I've seen so many relationships go wrong cause of just that sort of communication. Depends what u want in a relationship though. If you're just looking for somewhere to hang your hat so to speak .. one of the examples on the bag .. examples no amount of communication councelling etc is going to help unless u change you're mind about the type of relationship you want to be in if the other person wants a relationship more based on a home life.

Whoops .. just had the message .. we r communicating!!!!!! I am off to bed .. ten minites of meditation first though.

U no it makes sense!!!!